In the latest episode of "Between Candles", we are diving into a crucial and often under-discussed topic: understanding and supporting men in therapy.
Men face unique challenges when it comes to mental health. Societal expectations, stigma, and ingrained beliefs about masculinity often make it difficult for men to seek help and express vulnerability. As therapists, it's essential to create a safe space for men to open up and work through their issues without judgment.
In this episode, we’ll explore these challenges in depth with Jordan, a dedicated counselor from Fernie, British Columbia. Jordan specializes in working with men and has valuable insights into their barriers to accessing mental health support. His work with a men's mental health group in Fernie has provided him with a wealth of experience in helping men navigate their mental health journeys.
From Passionate Skier to Dedicated Therapist
Jordan's journey to becoming a therapist is fascinating. He moved to Fernie nearly 17 years ago, drawn by the allure of skiing and the lifestyle it offered. Like many, he started as a skier but found a way to balance his passion for skiing with a meaningful career. Since 2019, Jordan has been working as a counselor, focusing on private practice for the past four years. His small-town practice sees a wide variety of clients, but he finds himself particularly drawn to working with men.
The Unique Challenges of Counseling Men
Working with men, especially those aged 20 to 50, presents unique challenges and opportunities. Jordan's clients often grapple with trauma, anxiety, and depression. To combat these issues, he started a men's mental health group in Fernie that has been running for about five years. This group addresses the specific needs and struggles men face in mental health.
The stigma surrounding men's mental health
One significant topic we delved into is the stigma men face regarding mental health. Both Jordan and I agree that men often carry additional layers of stigma, shame, and difficulty in accessing mental health services. This stigma can make it harder for men to be vulnerable and seek help. However, there are always exceptions—some men are immediately open and ready to dig deep into their issues, while others take longer to peel back their protective layers.
From Camp Counselor to Therapist
Jordan's passion for helping others began early in life. His first significant role was as a summer camp counselor, where he worked with kids from various backgrounds, including those who struggled. This experience laid the groundwork for his future in counseling. He transitioned from camp counseling to support work in child protection, eventually becoming a child and youth mental health therapist. This progression from counselor to therapist, with a stint as a support worker, highlights his dedication to supporting and guiding others through their challenges.
Conclusion
Jordan's journey and insights into working with men in therapy are incredibly valuable. His experience underscores the importance of addressing the unique challenges men face in mental health and the need for safe spaces where they can be vulnerable. As therapists, it's crucial to recognize these challenges and support our clients authentically and empathetically.
Thank you, Jordan, for sharing your story and expertise with us today. Your work in Fernie and your dedication to men's mental health are truly inspiring.
For more discussions like this, stay tuned to Therapist Sanctuary, where we create a supportive environment for therapists to connect, share, and grow together.
By creating a space where we can openly discuss the realities of being a therapist, we strengthen our community and enhance our ability to support our clients effectively. Remember, you are not alone in this journey. Let's continue to support each other and make a positive impact in the world of therapy.
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